Not too sure what you are disagreeing with Jimbo as I agree with most you have said apart from the "outside" bit!
As for Italy, we have many friends living there, both English and Italian. We know the place really well and know only too well their laid back attitude in doing things can be haphazard. It's their nature, as is hugging and kissing to greet, hopefully they may have stopped it a little for now. They are taking it very seriously as they've locked down the entire population with heavy fines and/or jail if you break the rules. Trouble is Italians love breaking the rules until they are caught.